Safety & trust

Discretion is the foundation.

Verification-first. Human-moderated. Privacy by design. Every choice we make starts with your safety.

We do not accept gallery uploads. Selfies are captured live in your browser and matched to your government ID by a human reviewer.

Every member is identity-checked against a valid national ID, international passport or driver's licence before approval.

Verifications, payments, photos and reports are reviewed by real moderators — not automated decisions.

Profile photos are blurred until both members express mutual interest. You decide who sees you, and when.

Your email, phone number, address and social handles are never displayed on your profile — to anyone, ever.

VIP members can browse invisibly and request admin-curated introductions without ever appearing in discover.