Safety & trust
Discretion is the foundation.
Verification-first. Human-moderated. Privacy by design. Every choice we make starts with your safety.
Live-capture verification only
We do not accept gallery uploads. Selfies are captured live in your browser and matched to a reference photo by a human reviewer.
Reference photo matching
Every member submits a reference photo that is compared to their live selfie by a human moderator before approval.
Human moderation team
Verifications, payments, photos and reports are reviewed by real moderators — not automated decisions.
Blurred by default
Profile photos are blurred until both members express mutual interest. You decide who sees you, and when.
Private contact details
Your email, phone number, address and social handles are never displayed on your profile — to anyone, ever.
VIP ghost mode
VIP members can browse invisibly and request admin-curated introductions without ever appearing in discover.