Question 1

Is Bondimi a dating app?

Accepted Answer

No. Bondimi is a private matchmaking platform for serious marriage, co-parenting and family-building partnerships. It is not for hookups, casual dating or social networking.

Question 2

Who can join?

Accepted Answer

Bondimi is designed for adults seeking serious long-term partnerships, marriage-oriented relationships, co-parenting connections, and family-building compatibility in a private and verification-first environment.

Members can define their relationship preferences, compatibility interests, and partnership goals during registration. Every member is verified before being admitted.

Question 3

How does verification work?

Accepted Answer

You complete a live face capture (no gallery uploads) and upload a clear reference photo. A human moderator compares the two and approves or requests resubmission.

Question 4

Can other members see my photos?

Accepted Answer

Photos are blurred by default. They are only unblurred when both you and the other member have expressed mutual interest. Private photos require an additional approval request.

Question 5

How do I pay?

Accepted Answer

After verification approval, you'll choose a membership tier and pay using the option that suits you best. We accept manual bank transfer to our verified Bondimi account (upload your proof of payment and an admin activates your subscription within 24 hours), as well as instant card and bank payments through our secure payment gateways — Paystack and Flutterwave — which activate your membership automatically once the payment succeeds.

Question 6

What happens when my subscription expires?

Accepted Answer

Discovery, matches and messaging are temporarily paused. Your profile and conversations remain saved. You can renew at any time and resume immediately after admin approval.

Question 7

What is VIP ghost mode?

Accepted Answer

VIP members can browse the platform invisibly and receive curated introductions directly from our concierge team — without ever appearing in another member's discover feed.

Question 8

Can I delete my account?

Accepted Answer

Yes. You can request account deletion at any time from your Account Status page. After you confirm, your account enters a 30-day grace period before it is permanently deleted. During this period your profile is hidden from other members and you cannot send or receive messages, matches, or interests. You can cancel the deletion anytime before the 30 days end if you change your mind.

Question 9

What happens to my data after I delete my account?

Accepted Answer

Once the 30-day grace period ends, your account and personal data are permanently removed from Bondimi. A limited set of records may be retained where required for security, legal compliance, or fraud prevention, but these are not used to identify or contact you.

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